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CONVERSATION STARTERS

For Couples

  • At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?
  • If your roles as husband and wife were reversed, how would your life be easier? How would it be more difficult?
  • If as a couple, you could have dinner together with another couple from history, who would you choose and why?
  • If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently?
  • What is one of the most important things your parents taught you? How have you lived this out?
  • What kinds of things hurt your feelings?
  • What is the weirdest dream you have ever had?
  • What would you put in a time capsule to be opened in 100 years?
  • What is something you would like to accomplish and why?
  • What are three things you have one your bucket list?
  • Who is the most courageous person you know?
  • If you could do any job in the world for one day, what would you choose and why?
  • What is one thing about each of your family members that makes you proud?
  • If you were granted one wish, what would it be?
  • What is your favorite movie of all time and why? What is your favorite theater candy?
  • Who was your favorite teacher and why?
  • What would you most like to ask God?
  • What are your three most favorite things to do?
  • What are some things that make you feel stressed or anxious? What is the best thing I could do to help relieve your stress?
  • Name an old friend you would like to see and why?
  • What was your favorite game to play when you were a child?
  • What is your earliest childhood memory?
  • What is something that you do that gives you the most personal satisfaction?
  • Name a change that was hard for you? Why was it hard? What did you learn?
  • What are your three least favorite things to do?
  • What is the scariest thing you have ever done?
  • What do you worry about most and why?
  • If you could have chosen your own first name, what would it be?
  • If you had to create a mission statement for your family, what would it be?
  • What is the goofiest thing about your family? In what ways is this good or bad?
  • What makes you feel most welcomed when you get home?
  • What is your favorite commercial of all time?
  • If you were going to do something nice for someone outside of your family, what would you do and why?
  • If you could change one thing to make life easier, what would it be?
  • What would you like to put on a bucket list to complete in the next 10 years?
  • What do you want to be remembered for by your friends?
  • What does being hospitable look like to you?
  • What is some of the best advice you have ever received?
  • What is the greatest lesson God has taught you in the past year?
  • How can I be praying for you right now?